I'm sure everyone has already heard that Sandusky was found guilty during his sex abuse trial, and if you have not heard, well then you heard it here first (sorry trying to insert some humor). I have been hearing story after story about these predators, abusing and molesting children, and no one finding out until years later. My biggest fear is that someone will hurt my child and I have told my kids over and over that if anything like that happens or is suggested to them that they need to let me of an adult they trust know immediately. We even had a case in our hometown where a high school student sexually assaulted a child on the school bus. Yet another reason my children do not ride the bus, high schoolers should not ride the same bus as elementary school kids. This stuff makes me sick. I have no idea how anyone can look at a child and be attracted to them in that way. I am so paranoid everywhere I go. The thing that is worst for me is public bathrooms, let me explain. My son is at the age now that he wants to use the mens room rather than the ladies, and he knows the difference. Once in a while I can still convince him but sometimes he is very persistant. I have told him time and time again to make sure the stall door is shut and locked, to make sure he doesn't pull his pants all the way down when using the urinal....but he is 4, has a tiny attention span, and has no idea that if he is not careful he could get hurt. He has walked out of a public bathroom in the past still pulling his undies up and everything showing, I about died. How can I get this through to him without totally freaking him out? I am now that creepy woman that stands halfway in the door of the men's bathroom so that I can at least hear what he is doing and that no one is bugging him. I never had these issues with my daughter since we use the same restroom. I have to give major props to businesses that have the "family bathroom", I hope they know how much stress they save me, and probably other moms (I hope I'm not alone on this) Any ladies (or guys) out there have any advice on how to get my son to be more private and aware? Please leave me a comment on what has worked for you.